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Monday, August 27, 2018

The Dreaded Sleep Regression...

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The Sleep Regression is real yall. And I was naive to think, oh no, my baby is such a good sleeper, there's no way the sleep regression will effect him. Well, if that wasn't a huge face palm to the head, I don't know what is. 

We hit the regression a little early, a couple weeks before Miles hit the 4 month mark. Before that, he would go stretches of sleeping 5ish hours, wake up to feed, then usually go another 2 or 3. And I've heard for a newborn, that's pretty good! So I was definitely counting my blessings, and thought we maaay be in the clear. Whomp Whomp. And folks, it hit out of nowhere! One night he slept great, and the next night he woke up every three hours...then the next night every two hours...as you can imagine, I was one tired mama. And I know there are many moms out there who have gone through this and can relate! 

It lasted about 2 weeks, and at that point, Mike and I started kicking around the idea of putting him in his crib so we wouldn't wake up at every little sound and could maybe get a few extra minutes sprinkled throughout the night (you can read about that here). We decided that not only did Miles need a transition to his crib, but we did too-we were not ready to have hime sleep in his own room! So we decided that after his final feeding of the night, we would put him into his bassinet in our room like normal, but then when he woke for his next feeding, I'd transition him into his crib, so that way he would get used to it. The first night was a little shaky, when I went in to get him, he was sleeping completely sideways from where I put him down. He must have thought he had so much freedom and moved around like crazy! We were still getting up every 2-3 hours, but I have heard this is just a phase, and to power through it.

So last night, we were continuing with the plan, I fed him, put him in his bassinet, and about 10 minutes later he woke up noooot happy at all! Mike thought maybe switching up his sleeping places was making him confused, so I topped him off and we decided to put him to sleep in his crib for the whole night (insert me sobbing here). And friends, he slept for 6.5 hours the first stretch!! Then another 2 and a half! When I went in there at 6:45, I fed him, thinking we'd be up for the day, and after he was done eating, he seemed sleepy, so I put him back down in his crib, and he slept for another hour and a half! Which is insaaaane. Now, I don't want to get my hopes up that we are through the sleep regression phase, but I am majorly keeping my fingers crossed that we are! And today marks another MILEStone, because we got so much sleep last night, this is the first time he is napping and I'm not! So I got laundry put away, swept the downstairs, cleaned our bathroom, AND am having time to write this post. It's amazing how much I can get done when I feel rested! Majorly crossing our fingers that this sleep pattern continues!

For those mamas who have gone through the sleep regression, what are some of your tips that helped you survive?!


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Sunday, August 26, 2018

I've Become THAT Mom...

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Well, it's the first of many I suppose. The first of many aha moments realizing I've become that Mom. And when it happened, I couldn't help but laugh at myself! You see, before I got pregnant, and especially while I was pregnant, you are privy to many different people's experiences with kids. You get their opinions, suggestions, what they did, what worked for them, which is extremely helpful, but also can be overwhelming! 

In our Newborn Care Class, they suggested that Baby sleep in our room in a bassinet at first so we can be close to each other, have easy access to feeding, bonding, and all that good stuff. They said it's personal preference on how long you can have them sleep in your room, some say 3 months, some say 6, I've talked to some people who still have their little one sleeping with them until their first birthday. Like I said, it's personal preference. Before Miles came along, I said that I would have him in his own room, in his crib as soon as we could, I was thinking like, 3 months ish. 

But as soon as that little nugget entered the world, I couldn't get enough of him! I don't know about you, but every little move and sound he made, I would wake up and check on him, I think that's human nature. But as he started to get older, I knew that I didn't need to check on him every time he made a sound, however, I still subconsciously woke up each time he started to stir. You can imagine that this made for a very tired mama, because I was losing out on sleep unnecessarily. That's when I started to throw around the idea to Mike that we think about moving him into his crib sometime soon so I wouldn't wake up at every little sound. He instantly said, "NO! I'm not ready for that!" Haha, which surprised me, and I thought it was cute. Then I realized, when I really thought about it, it was really hard for me to grasp the fact that this phase was going to end and I'd never get it back. I know he's not going to be this little for very long, and once we transition him to his crib, he won't ever sleep next to me all tucked into his bassinet. And this made me really sad. Like I said above, I thought I would be the mom that kicked him out as soon as possible and it wouldn't phase me, but boy was I wrong! The thought made me really sad and I had the first glimpse of the feeling that my baby was growing up! I know I'm going to have many more of those moments throughout his lifetime, but this first one caught me off guard!

Stay tuned tomorrow to see what we decided... 

Just a sweet photo of me and my boy reading stories on the floor


Thursday, May 3, 2018

Hubby's Hockey Tourny

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Oh CAHA. Each year my hubby plays in the California Amateur's Hockey Association tournament, and it is one of our favorite weekends of the year! This was our 4th year, 4th year! Every year, the same group of guys get together and kick butt at the tourny down in San Jose. The past few years, Mike and I have gotten a hotel and stayed in San Jose with the team, and treat it as a mini getaway. We spend most of the days at the rink, then go up to the awesome bar/restaurant they have that overlooks the rinks and pig out on bar food and beer. Then we usually all go out for a team dinner and hit the town for some drinks after. This year, obviously, looked a bit different for us. Me being 9 months pregnant, it was just going to be too much for me. So this year we stayed at my parents house in Castro Valley and drove down for each game. It worked out well, but we definitely missed spending the whole weekend with the team! The guys on the team, and their wives/girlfriends have become like our second family, and we feel so grateful to have this awesome group in our lives! 

Here's a look down memory lane of past tournaments! 


2014


This was our first year back in 2014! It was 11 am and we had already celebrated with 3 mimosas each, oh what a fun day we had
This was 2 weeks before he proposed! He had told the team, so they all knew, but I had NO IDEA!! We look like babies!
2015
In between games we went to Dave and Busters! Played some games, had some shots, and had an awesome time.

Our group out for drinks after a day of hockey!
2016

One of the only times you will see my hubby drink alcohol is on this weekend :)
2 of my favorite girls - out with our men!

2017
Last year I attended a John Pardi concert with work friends the day before the tourny, and the concert was right across the street from the hotel Mike and I were staying at! Definitely a fun way to start the weekend early!
Hubby snapped this pic of me before the first game :)

As a thank you for freezing my butt off at the rink all weekend, hubby treated me to some Cream :)

Last year my poor husband's back went out in Game 3, so he had to sit out the last game of the tourny.

2018

9 Months preggers but still cheering my man on!



All the wives/gfs! 
Silly hubby photobombing. Love this girl so much

Some of the best men I know! 



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